Do Not Do This To Yourself!!

Weddings are very special occasions where basically the attention is focused on the couple, most especially the bride and the last thing any bride will do to herself on their special day is to be uncomfortable with themselves, as a matter of fact brides are meant to be as comfortable as possible. Brides should learn to wear cloths that suit their body types, wear comfortable shoes, less dramatic make-up, the list is unending. I realised that brides want to impress on their special day, look their very best and feel on top of the world but sometimes they go to extremes to achieve this. No matter what you want to achieve, do no do these things to yourself.

1, Revealing dress; Wear a dress that will enhance your body type and not make you look like a tramp. As a bride you want to look sexy, glamorous and exquisite but decent so wear dresses that don't reveal too much. If you are plus size then tone it down a little wear what fits otherwise you'll spend your day adjusting here and there.

2, The wrong type of shoes; Choose the perfect wedding shoes for your big day,when choosing your shoes consider what the terrain is like. If there will be cobble stone, sand or gravel then you cant count on your designer heels, you can wear pretty stylish flats or formal wedge and you'll make it through without sinking, getting stuck or ruining your shoes. Also your shoe comfort level will determine a lot, stick with a heel height you are used to and comfortable with. However mostly consider low heel shoes.

                      

3, The wedding dress myth; Who says you have to wear the traditional ball dress or white dress, if its not what you will be comfortable with then you don't have to wear them and discomfort yourself even if the popular saying goes like 'its just a one day event' remember it should be one of your happiest days. There are a variety of simple yet stylish wedding dresses that you can choose from even in different colours.

4, Bride of Frankeinstien;  Avoid wearing heavy make-up, it will do more good than harm. You don't want your mascara running everywhere when a sudden tear drops, you also don't want your face looking like a-yet-to-finish clay pot after all the dancing and merry making. Finally you don't want to look like someone else when you wear the heavy make-up, so be mindful of how you wear your make-up and who wears your make-up. On your special day your make-up should make you look even more beautiful  and elegant.

5, Bridezilla; Don't be that spoiled girl who's behaviour becomes outrageously bad in the course of planning for your wedding. What you do through out your wedding planning process will determine the outcome of your wedding. Don't terrorise your family, bridal party and your wedding planner, don't make greedy demands and break all rules of etiquette, to insure that you are the single most important person on the planet from the time you are engaged to the time you are married otherwise on your wedding day you'd see gloomy faces all about and certain things not going right, and what about the most important aspect which is the marriage how would that work out for you after terrorising everyone. You already will be the most important person on your day but don't let it overwhelm you, so put certain things into perspective, be calm, have someone to always talk to if you must, stay focused and don't allow the idea of getting married run you over.